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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>The time to live is now. Take your moment to shine. Seize the day and run with it, and above all else, love without limits</description><title>Swinging on a Star</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @freetobemel)</generator><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>darksilenceinsuburbia:

Shlomit Bauman . Ran Out.
Israeli...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c920d420ca5b64cffb6a2ef211a80da8/tumblr_mme3lb5wus1qarjnpo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/50fa6d6b9472df7300b637f794eb2fd5/tumblr_mme3lb5wus1qarjnpo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/db7f1fbfeebe3e000bfa722157e3d44d/tumblr_mme3lb5wus1qarjnpo3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://darksilenceinsuburbia.tumblr.com/post/49915914309/shlomit-bauman-ran-out-israeli-ceramics" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;darksilenceinsuburbia&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dezeen.com/2013/03/01/ran-out-ceramics-by-shlomit-bauman/"&gt;Shlomit Bauman &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;em&gt; Ran Out.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;Israeli ceramics designer Shlomit Bauman combined white porcelain with the very last batch of clay from a local pit to make these stretched and distorted objects.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;The objects in the Ran Out collection combine porcelain with a type of Israeli terracotta that has almost been used up completely.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/32369691044063536/"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Via&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916410978</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916410978</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 01:32:47 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>
Sam Witwer as Darth Maul from Star Wars: The Clone Wars (x)
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/bba01d1afb4516173df269b939df01f7/tumblr_mhkg8nKViy1s4efmoo3_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/de157a0644af81c11424f16337f32297/tumblr_mhkg8nKViy1s4efmoo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7e3b38c4a82e2a8ae8fab5ae698a368c/tumblr_mhkg8nKViy1s4efmoo4_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/ddc351c591b065cb12a65e6f7a8ea237/tumblr_mhkg8nKViy1s4efmoo2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/fccb2cc1f71910195aeb54a51cc9da7a/tumblr_mhkg8nKViy1s4efmoo5_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Sam Witwer&lt;/strong&gt; as Darth Maul from Star Wars: The Clone Wars &lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;(&lt;a href="http://starwars.com/watch/sam_witwer_as_darth_maul.html"&gt;x&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916406652</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916406652</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 01:32:41 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>marshallandmarceline:


Pokémon is so fucking deep
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8d6xi5gWs1rcwf0xo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8d6xi5gWs1rcwf0xo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8d6xi5gWs1rcwf0xo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8d6xi5gWs1rcwf0xo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://marshallandmarceline.tumblr.com/post/49888480574/pokemon-is-so-fucking-deep"&gt;marshallandmarceline&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Pokémon is so fucking deep&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916373071</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916373071</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 01:31:57 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2573d510c26c1928d8b6246f61341990/tumblr_mlf6zcoTug1qe75x7o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916356706</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916356706</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 01:31:35 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>artemisdreaming:

Water Nymph from the Goldfish Pond
Franz Hein
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a1a1ccf3dcf63863f791e2f494e5338d/tumblr_mmg7fpF3hp1qc6wuio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://artemisdreaming.tumblr.com/post/49883362093/water-nymph-from-the-goldfish-pond-franz-hein"&gt;artemisdreaming&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Water Nymph from the Goldfish Pond&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Franz Hein&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916347245</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916347245</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 01:31:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2116550f80f4375a460b277a60d762d3/tumblr_mfkpedp2bT1s0p2y7o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7e532e3f3f543d04a6c7635e9d9e77e5/tumblr_mfkpedp2bT1s0p2y7o2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916331350</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916331350</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 01:31:01 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3bfe28b1b37927528c4d09e7b35a4176/tumblr_mmgi0g6gkh1r57zp0o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3aa07f3e3428100ecb78f90d4e3b994f/tumblr_mmgi0g6gkh1r57zp0o2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916322229</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49916322229</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 01:30:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d6f6a56deb22105b3a7d45c252390f28/tumblr_mffsp85z321rdp16ro1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49913560394</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49913560394</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 00:37:27 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>heimarmenee:

Disney Couples Challenge l Day Six: Romantic...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/b89166d251387ebdb544d6507fda3b8d/tumblr_mhbm4hWCZf1rtspywo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://heimarmenee.tumblr.com/post/41964295628/disney-couples-challenge-l-day-six-romantic"&gt;heimarmenee&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Disney Couples Challenge l &lt;em&gt;Day Six: Romantic Gesture —&gt; &lt;/em&gt;When Prince Adam gives Belle her library.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49913554410</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49913554410</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 00:37:21 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>rfmmsd:

Illustrator, Graphic Designer &amp; Tattoo...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/079c6ab65b284272fa12f1b16dd8b816/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e880c7d9c40d10a0f43b6f76ae115d85/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1041c6d0ec862e1ef3a3bacd7cc3798a/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4387514dd874554533d379c198167eed/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a769940a77dda8aba9a9f8d173a1de2d/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e14ed9179b4e3bfa23c2d347f4c9095e/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7e7777b554e9291ba4f46010e8906902/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/097c339d522fb8460dcca05cd132e78f/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o8_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6d61aedf2747ebd6e18967b63e41c6b0/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o10_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9ad445860944e36b22a15b108e935ad0/tumblr_mmgoaiwbGs1qeju05o9_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://rfmmsd.tumblr.com/post/49911062800/illustrator-graphic-designer-tattoo-artist" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;rfmmsd&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Illustrator, Graphic Designer &amp; Tattoo Artist:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kamil Czapiga&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;div&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;“Kamil Czapiga is a young illustrator and apprentice in tattoo arts from Katowice, Poland. Currently he is studying graphic design and illustration at Academy of Fine Arts. Kamil is inspired by wild nature, weird folk music, native spirituality, myths, legends, fairytales and broadly-taken symbolism.&lt;/span&gt;”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;span&gt;“You want one of my tattoos? Send me a message!”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="image" height="600" src="http://www.artnau.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Kamil-Czapiga_52a.jpg" width="900"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49913470221</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49913470221</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 May 2013 00:35:53 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>lyriquediscorde:

ppgfreak85:

One of the BEST ad campaigns...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4fadc05e86fceab248738e3c01179b75/tumblr_mlydlj2FXC1qjv5qvo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/215130fec3dbbe04621465d2b10eb183/tumblr_mlydlj2FXC1qjv5qvo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/332872eabaa481a473578dd05c8f09e7/tumblr_mlydlj2FXC1qjv5qvo3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/affa3e562ff02f629158037561106b0b/tumblr_mlydlj2FXC1qjv5qvo4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6efc071a7165339647419bd2a6668cff/tumblr_mlydlj2FXC1qjv5qvo5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f805d7ebbc4ef38eed2ef6d8cb14c2c4/tumblr_mlydlj2FXC1qjv5qvo6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6e8e8a65475ac296ed06c8edb55e9f88/tumblr_mlydlj2FXC1qjv5qvo7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://lyriquediscorde.tumblr.com/post/49195903735/ppgfreak85-one-of-the-best-ad-campaigns-about" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;lyriquediscorde&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ppgfreak85.tumblr.com/post/49118977807/one-of-the-best-ad-campaigns-about-representation"&gt;ppgfreak85&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One of the BEST ad campaigns about representation I have seen.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Everyone has a backbone. Use yours.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BEST.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271811729</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271811729</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 14:41:36 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>collegehumor:

Why the Beginning of May Kinda Sucks
We feel your...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/42ac812526c5d716470b80cf8e87a0e7/tumblr_mm2pqqbvEm1qasthro1_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://blog.collegehumor.com/post/49260953837/why-the-beginning-of-may-kinda-sucks-we-feel-your" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;collegehumor&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.collegehumor.com/picture/6887048/why-the-beginning-of-may-kinda-sucks"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why the Beginning of May Kinda Sucks&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We feel your pain.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271688269</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271688269</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 14:39:25 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>the-beauty-of-words-blog:

This post has been featured on a...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/db818783bf0f8582963d0b79a6369c03/tumblr_ml79loxOG31rr6og1o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thebeautyofwordsblog.com/post/49261568187/this-post-has-been-featured-on-a-1000notes-com" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;the-beauty-of-words-blog&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p class="gone"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;small&gt;This post has been featured on a &lt;a href="http://www.1000notes.com"&gt;1000notes.com&lt;/a&gt; blog.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271533276</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271533276</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 14:36:40 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>supersonicelectronic:

Mike Mitchell.
Here are all of Mike...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f19b83cb0a9558ae1b7854e1ac27d644/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to8_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/63957b8aaeaac0647a4a50685c9316cf/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to9_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/fbee5018d1e41c3ebd27358498aa164f/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/5efb71eaa930567a52bc9262e2baf20e/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b390f113511a658294a5f7e1a8a4c813/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/0be60d7357f627a80cf761702b959975/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/67f9bf546406740760013bf146983c87/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/0e503ffaf9221a027e13dc7332e1c17b/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f1578cc70df55fe02d42ce805778c7f7/tumblr_mm2ov5fWpf1qz9v0to2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://supersonicelectronic.com/post/49261747107/mike-mitchell"&gt;supersonicelectronic&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p class="pan"&gt;&lt;a href="http://supersonicelectronic.com/post/49261747107/mike-mitchell" title="Mike Mitchell - Supersonic Electronic" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mike Mitchell.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="pc"&gt;Here are all of Mike Mitchell’s portraits from his solo show at Mondo Gallery in Austin, Texas.  The show opened on April 26th and closes on May 25th. See the rest of Mike’s spectacular pieces below (20+ More Portraits!!):&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://supersonicelectronic.com/post/49261747107/mike-mitchell"&gt;Read More&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271503301</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49271503301</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 14:36:09 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>the-absolute-best-posts:

This post has been featured on a...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/45ac0b60d32496ffaecef86b6ac7b24a/tumblr_mlzm6qj7301qz4d4bo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.1000notes.com/post/49262449430" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;the-absolute-best-posts&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p class="gone"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;small&gt;This post has been featured on a &lt;a href="http://www.1000notes.com"&gt;1000notes.com&lt;/a&gt; blog.&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267702610</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267702610</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 13:24:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>annfriedman:

In my ongoing quest for the perfect framework for...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/42cdb3448639d389f63342b471c4300e/tumblr_mlzuxbQyKw1qjzfl0o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://annfriedman.com/post/49152967734/in-my-ongoing-quest-for-the-perfect-framework-for"&gt;annfriedman&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;In my ongoing quest for the perfect framework for &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://nymag.com/thecut/2013/01/haters-gonna-hate-whats-a-woman-to-do.html"&gt;understanding haters&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;span&gt;I created &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Disapproval Matrix**&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;. (With a deep bow to its &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://nymag.com/nymag/culture/approvalmatrix/archive/"&gt;inspiration&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;.) This is one way to separate haterade from productive feedback. Here’s how the quadrants break down:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Critics:&lt;/strong&gt; These are smart people who know something about your field. They are taking a hard look at your work and are not loving it. You’ll probably want to listen to what they have to say, and make some adjustments to your work based on their thoughtful comments.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lovers:&lt;/strong&gt; These people are invested in you and are also giving you negative but rational feedback because &lt;em&gt;they want you to improve&lt;/em&gt;. Listen to them, too. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Frenemies:&lt;/strong&gt; Ooooh, this quadrant is tricky. These people really know how to hurt you, because they know you personally or know your work pretty well. But at the end of the day, their criticism is not actually about your work—it’s about you personally. And they aren’t actually interested in a productive conversation that will result in you becoming better at what you do. They just wanna undermine you. Dishonorable mention goes to The Hater Within, aka the irrational voice inside you that says you suck, which usually falls into this quadrant. Tell all of these fools to sit down and shut up.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Haters:&lt;/strong&gt; This is your garden-variety, often anonymous troll who wants to tear down everything about you for no rational reason. Folks in this quadrant are easy to write off because they’re counterproductive and &lt;a href="http://annfriedman.com/post/47141088264/1-million"&gt;you don’t even know them&lt;/a&gt;. Ignore! Engaging won’t make you any better at what you do. And then rest easy, because having haters is proof your work is finding a wide audience and is sparking conversation. &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7z_ztMxBgk"&gt;Own it&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The general rule of thumb? When you receive negative feedback that falls into one of the top two quadrants—from experts or people who care about you who are engaging with and rationally critiquing your &lt;em&gt;work—&lt;/em&gt;you should probably take their comments to heart. When you receive negative feedback that falls into the bottom two quadrants, you should just let it roll off your back and just keep doin’ you. If you need to amp yourself up about it, may I suggest &lt;a href="http://open.spotify.com/user/djhashtag/playlist/3zDnzvmQkgGCOvUFhzwe1t"&gt;this #BYEHATER playlist&lt;/a&gt; on Spotify? You’re welcome.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;** I presented The Disapproval Matrix to the fine folks at &lt;a href="http://moxie.quitestrong.com/"&gt;MoxieCon&lt;/a&gt; in Chicago yesterday, and they seemed to find it useful, so I figured I’d share with the class. It was originally inspired by a question my friend &lt;a href="http://channingkennedy.com/"&gt;Channing Kennedy&lt;/a&gt; submitted to &lt;a href="http://www.cjr.org/realtalk/bye_haters.php"&gt;my #Realtalk column&lt;/a&gt; at the Columbia Journalism Review.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267661100</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267661100</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 13:23:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>arpeggia:

United Visual Artists - Vanishing Point, 2013</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/69a7b532b0b6140ff41a348a3180e4f8/tumblr_mm2schWYu41qdrgo9o7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/404d354b11c6ec3af72a3afa666341c6/tumblr_mm2schWYu41qdrgo9o5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4ad7350d525d8359923c0cd9c0ebceb8/tumblr_mm2schWYu41qdrgo9o4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/94525f8e4a07ff276712ea7861611b86/tumblr_mm2schWYu41qdrgo9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c23b46f0029a2f38b10160aaeae06347/tumblr_mm2schWYu41qdrgo9o2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/0518fbfc7a875622a11e37416526e99e/tumblr_mm2schWYu41qdrgo9o3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://arpeggia.tumblr.com/post/49263305528" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;arpeggia&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.triangulationblog.com/2013/04/vanishing-point-by-united-visual-artists.html"&gt;United Visual Artists&lt;/a&gt; - Vanishing Point, 2013&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267372094</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267372094</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 13:18:04 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>nevver:

I was hungry
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.swiss-miss.com/2013/04/when-i-was-hungy.html"&gt;I was hungry&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267339219</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267339219</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 13:17:28 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>nevver:

We get nowhere, it’s been proved</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/25bf3d7d5e0b2713ea453e071be90cf0/tumblr_mm2sx7X6I81qz6f9yo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://thisisnthappiness.com/post/49263913259/we-get-nowhere-its-been-proved" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;nevver&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/juliagaldo/8222823536/in/photostream"&gt;We get nowhere, it’s been proved&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267124051</link><guid>http://freetobemel.tumblr.com/post/49267124051</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 13:13:16 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>the-absolute-best-posts:

Wicked Clothes presents: the Tri-Blend...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/12d9af697c35df0ae5db3ef2328e8c21/tumblr_mlxnsfPvVH1qcf25xo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/82ceed012be4665d8d71a78b16387aac/tumblr_mlxnsfPvVH1qcf25xo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.1000notes.com/post/49263914210" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;the-absolute-best-posts&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

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